tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-968022325149168758.post90441576765514611..comments2024-03-20T00:18:15.489-07:00Comments on The Long and Winding Road: With and Without YouJenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02455367671890571478noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-968022325149168758.post-1659396181372731072014-08-30T19:42:29.256-07:002014-08-30T19:42:29.256-07:00I am so happy for you both. <3 - JillianI am so happy for you both. <3 - JillianJillianhttp://barefootteaching.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-968022325149168758.post-32345899219214662852014-08-27T09:46:28.720-07:002014-08-27T09:46:28.720-07:00Thank you Jess!
❤Thank you Jess!<br /><br />❤Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02455367671890571478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-968022325149168758.post-9189827343182248272014-08-27T09:46:01.923-07:002014-08-27T09:46:01.923-07:00Thank you,
and...
I agree ; )Thank you,<br /><br />and...<br /><br />I agree ; )Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02455367671890571478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-968022325149168758.post-36582112420148196082014-08-27T09:45:41.637-07:002014-08-27T09:45:41.637-07:00Thank you.
I think about you all.the.time.
Love...Thank you. <br /><br />I think about you all.the.time.<br /><br />Love you Erin.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02455367671890571478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-968022325149168758.post-91482820480686958422014-08-27T09:44:57.227-07:002014-08-27T09:44:57.227-07:00Thank you love. You understand everything. Just ev...Thank you love. You understand everything. Just everything. I wish you were here...Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02455367671890571478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-968022325149168758.post-73091934508169037972014-08-27T09:43:46.392-07:002014-08-27T09:43:46.392-07:00Thank you so much, for every word! You are so righ...Thank you so much, for every word! You are so right! In the end, they truly are walls and doors. I was saving something along the exact lines of what you wrote for my post on Aviana's room specifically. You and I are on the exact same wavelength. She is everywhere, and wherever I go, she is there! You got it girl! We got it girl! True. True.True. <br /><br />Love you!!Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02455367671890571478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-968022325149168758.post-37803915797182098672014-08-27T09:39:53.441-07:002014-08-27T09:39:53.441-07:00I can relate - there is no getting over, just lea...I can relate - there is no getting over, just learning to live with, so many years later and it feels like it just happened, yet we are learning to live over again, do things we previously thought impossible! So much truth! So much! <br /><br />I love you! <br /><br />Where's my stripy Cam?Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02455367671890571478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-968022325149168758.post-54981193768348726522014-08-22T11:27:19.110-07:002014-08-22T11:27:19.110-07:00So happy for you that your Tahoe dream is coming t...So happy for you that your Tahoe dream is coming true! May peace find you in beautiful Lake Tahoe. <br />Hugs,<br />JessAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-968022325149168758.post-1127176308574186082014-08-22T09:49:14.454-07:002014-08-22T09:49:14.454-07:00I'm so excited to go on this adventure with yo...I'm so excited to go on this adventure with you. The beauty of Lake Tahoe just fits you all perfectly.<br />DixieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-968022325149168758.post-2292130693067401802014-08-21T14:49:13.286-07:002014-08-21T14:49:13.286-07:00This post makes all the sense in the world to me. ...This post makes all the sense in the world to me. I can only imagine what a bittersweet move and experience this is. My thoughts are with you and I will look forward to reading about your adventures in TahoeMrs. Vhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13485276826392383792noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-968022325149168758.post-68110489547442814032014-08-20T21:18:36.636-07:002014-08-20T21:18:36.636-07:00"We have these new eyes. We see everything di..."We have these new eyes. We see everything differently. We feel outrageously alive. We live our lives in a whole new way. We appreciate much more. We love on this new and amazing level. We this. We that. But over everything - she's gone." Now that you explain it, I can see the duality that you're talking about. I'm so sorry that she isn't moving to Tahoe with you. This must be so different than the way you used to imagine it. I'm so sorry, I wish I could undo and change it all. So many things about this make me sad, but I'm happy for the two of you that you are following your dreams. It sounds like right now in this moment you & Dave are on the specific path in life that you are supposed to be on. My friend's husband is an electrician and he can't find a job. My aunt and uncle's house stayed on the market for months before it finally sold so they could move back to Pennsylvania. Everything for ya'll is clicking right into place. That has to be a sign. But I believe in destiny (IDK, maybe I've seen too many episodes of Lost). Stay in tune with each other and your gut feelings and you can't go wrong. Make decisions big and small that bring peace. Stay where the peace is when you find it. That's what I try to do. I love ya'll!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-968022325149168758.post-39656171570088962582014-08-20T19:36:50.416-07:002014-08-20T19:36:50.416-07:00So, you ARE moving? And you have a tentative date...So, you ARE moving? And you have a tentative date? I am happy for you, and think it is a great change. I do not have any experience that matches yours, but I know that you are so emotional, spiritual and deep (Dave too), that you are not leaving anything other than specific walls and doors. She is everywhere, and she wants to be with you in a place that she knows makes you happy. Even if it will sometimes make you sad. You honor her every minute of every day, no matter where you are. And you take her everywhere, so take her to the most beautiful place you know and love!!!Gina and the Ganghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08368713078096257203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-968022325149168758.post-21917419720715648662014-08-20T16:21:24.940-07:002014-08-20T16:21:24.940-07:00I don't know what to say. For me, grief is som...I don't know what to say. For me, grief is something that doesn't get better. There is no other side. There is no getting over it. You learn to live through it. You, my girl, know about living through ANYTHING!!!! One of my best friends explained it to me like this; things never stop being shitty, you just learn to live with it and it becomes less shitty. And it's true for me. I can find fun and happiness in things, in life, in the normal mundane things but it's still THERE. Always. Always with me. Four and a half years later and there are times when it feels like it just happened. And then there are times when I feel that we are learning to live all over. Our lives are over. We'll never have our old lives back. That's done and over with. But we are learning to live a new life without sissy. A life without her before seemed to be impossible yet you know we do things we always previously thought were impossible. The impossible becomes not just possible but DOABLE. You have to. Again, I'm not telling you anything that you don't already know or have lived through or know yourself or that we haven't talked about. <br /><br />I love you and I think all of us are happy enough for you to be moving back to your Tahoe (in your Tahoe) that you can spill all the tears you want. <br /><br />I love you stripey Jen. Always stripes and hearts with you. Always. <br /><br />||||||\\\\\\///////|||||||| <3 <3 <3 <3Cameohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04815107970059019435noreply@blogger.com